The moment you have a reaction to something is the moment you give it relevancy.

People only react (positively or negatively) to things that matter. If something doesn’t matter, it doesn’t warrant a reaction.

If I do something that makes people hate me or love me, then I did something that mattered. If I do something that gets ignored, it doesn’t matter. It becomes irrelevant.

Keep that perspective both in things you do and things you react to. It can be quite eye opening once you start paying attention to what things (people, places, ideas, etc) matter to you and what things you do matter to other people.